Every once in a while I will hang out with a different man. Even as Monsieur L and I do almost everything together, sometimes I miss the company of women, but short of women, another man will do! [Parisian girlfriends are impossibly hard to come by, but I do get some female friends visiting with me from time to time.]
I met G a few years ago on the doorstep of “The Red Wheelbarrow”, the English bookstore that has since moved onto Rue Saint-Paul, and where we both know the owner. I was immediately taken by him. He is soft-spoken, friendly and has a gentle way about him. He and his partner live across the street in the historically infamous Hôtel de Brinvilliers [sometimes also known as the Hôtel d'Aubray], with their kitchen window looking over to our living room windows, from which Monsieur L will whistle for their attention sometimes!
G usually has time to just roll around with me in the neighbourhood or attend specific events for art and books, and the day always passes sweetly by. On this particular day, we had a mission. G had received an invitation to a private label sale nearby that would be on for only three days. We decided to be the first ones there to have the pick of the crop, but eager beavers that we were, we actually showed up too early. The location was not far from one of my favourite spots, Le Sévigné, across from a lovely little park. The restaurant had undergone a mild renovation but still offered up the same fare – a varied selection of quiches and large servings of their irresistible in-house tarte tatin with fresh cream!
We restrained ourselves to just tea for me and coffee for G since it was well before lunchtime and we chatted away until closer to the opening time of the sale. I love this quieter pocket of the Marais even though it is only a block or so north of the hyper trendy and busy shopping strip of the Rue des Francs Bourgeois. I can imagine the young and adventurous Marie de Rabutin-Chantal [before she became the much fêted Madame de Sévigné] wandering up the Rue de Turenne from her home in the Place des Vosges [still the Place Royale when she was growing up there] on a warm spring day and gazing up at the windows of the other elegant hôtel particuliers to see if she could entice a playmate to come down and join her for a promenade…and perhaps even an escapade or two!
G pointed up at the top floor of one such mansion on the street named after her, the Rue de Sévigné, and mentioned that he had considered buying that apartment before the one in the Hôtel de Brinvilliers became available. I envied his casual insouciance concerning the choice of residences amidst such a magnificent array of historically rich buildings!
Well then, onto choices regarding much more frivolous things! The sale for the end of season leftovers from the Marithé et François Girbaud line was housed in a large atelier space in the courtyard of one of these hôtels. We had to divest ourselves of all coats and bags just inside the door, and fortunately it wasn’t a jam-packed affair as these sales can tend to be. We took our time sorting through the numerous racks, G in the men’s section and me completely buried in the women’s. I am not a fashion hound and even though I liked the edgier styling of this label, the sale prices were not lowered enough to induce me to buy by the armful.
Monsieur L eventually joined us to break for lunch [although he did get caught up in the ferreting frenzy for a while in the accessories section!] We walked up to the Centre Culturel Suedois [since renamed Institut Suedois] housed in the Hôtel de Marle that dates from the 16th century. It was restored by the Swedish government in the early 1970′s to locate its cultural centre in Paris, with a year round programming of exhibitions, musical and dance performances, plays, and literary and film events. The little café within its cobbley courtyard offers up Swedish specialties for light lunches to the sounds of lilting Swedish voices.
Contented with our nordic interlude and with our trifle purchases in hand, we meandered home through the narrow sidestreets of this living museum that is the Marais. Monsieur L had other business to attend to so I decided to return with G to his place. We gossiped intensely as I sipped fragrant tea and he did his ironing. And so passes another easy and genial day… that perhaps even the gracious Madame de Sévigné herself would have taken pleasure in!
*”Quel jour sommes-nous
Nous sommes tous les jours
Mon amie
Nous sommes toute la vie…”
[from "Chanson" by Jacques Prévert, 1900-1977]





